ini barking la..bkn shouting... sama tp x serupa.
Once a professor asked his students : "Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?"
The students thought for a while before one of them said : " We shout because we lose our calm."
"But why shout when the other person is just next to you? Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice?" . The students gave various answers, none of which satisfied the professor.
Finally he explained : " When 2 people are angry with each other, their hearts distance. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the louder they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance. "
Then he asked : " What happens when 2 people fall in love? They don't shout at each othe but talk softly. Why?? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small. When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak - they only whisper and get closer to each other in their love."
"Finally they do not even need to whisper. They only look at each other, that's all. That is how close 2 people are when they love each other. "
So, when you argue, do not let your hearts get distant or say words that distance each other even more, or there may come a day when the distance is so great you will not find the path back to each other....
till death do us part...
Credit to JOYCE LOH..tq for sharing this beautiful story..
2 comments:
eh.. bagus ni... I baru je tegur my hubby semalam... asyik jerit kat our boy...
Bila I tanya kenapa nak jerit... hubby kata...anak tak dengar arahan...(Padahal dia tgh marah tu)... I ckp mcm mana dia nak dengar you jerit2... dia dekat je pun...
hehehhehe... betul juga fakta ni... kena control lah nampak nyerr...
hehehe.. bab jerit2 ni mmg x dapat la nk nolong.. mmg dh habit suri gak.. cuma citer ni byk mengingatkan kita knp kita terjerit2 tu.. hhhmmmmmm... tgh cuba berubah...
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